BREAST feeding is back in the news
today and apparently now any mum who posts a pic of her breastfeeding
has put pressure on those who couldn't for whatever reason.
As a result, the hashtag #bressure has
provoked a lot of support from bottle feeding mums who feel pressured
into breastfeeding.
Various stories, 'how I was looked down
on when I bottlefed' and the like have been posted and frankly it's
ridiculous.
As I recall, 'brelfies' rose to
prominence because various social media sites were censoring
breastfeeding pictures because of all the 'nudity' (god help too much
flesh is shown eh)
I don't recall one brelfie with the
message 'This is the right and only way and a plague on all those who
don't flop their boobs out to nurture their babies'
Why? because it didn't happen. Brelfies
were proud mums, sharing those intimate moments with the world.
The same intimate moments can be had
with bottle feeding, had this campaign been 'bottlefie' then
brilliant, a great way to get the message across that breast or
bottle, both are brilliant.
But instead it's back to running down
breastfeeding. I've seen the hurt in Pam's eyes when she couldn't get
Jacob to feed from her breast. He was lazy, we had all the help
possible, lovely supportive midwives, different positions but
sometimes it just doesn't work.
But now, nine months on, is she ashamed
she couldn't, depressed and pressured if she sees a mum
breastfeeding? No, my wife like hundreds of millions of women in the
world is proud, proud she carried and birthed a baby. Because
whatever the argument, THAT is the greatest accomplishment.
If anyone in your social circle judges
you for not being able to breastfeed then maybe you need to rethink
your social circle?
I know Pam wouldn't look down on any
mum who breastfeeds or bottlefeeds and speaking as a dad, I can't see
how any woman could.
Women are given the greatest gift, they
can conceive, grow and deliver human life. Frankly, it doesn't matter
how they then feed their babies just as long as they do.
We shouldn't judge anyone on either
side of this debate, we should instead remember our children are
being fed, some aren't.
Surely that's a bigger issue to worry
about?